At the beginning of a new project, job or relationship, everything feels wonderful. You are passionate, energetic, and positive that the outcome will be successful.
Time goes by....problems arise.....you put in a lot more than you get out and success begins to look like an improbability if not an impossibility.
Been there? Done that? We all have.
The question is....what is it that changed?
The goal remains the same so what changed was...well....you changed. You lost your passion, energy and positive mental attitude. You let problems blind you to possibilities. You let road blocks sap your energy. You let negative thoughts (and people?) bury your positive attitude.
You need an "attitude adjustment so that you can regain your passion, energy and positive outlook. Here are some suggestions to help you do that:
First, lets look at passion. Think back to the time when you started the project, job or relationship. Remember the fire you felt.
Now....write a sentence or short paragraph that plainly states the object of your desire.
Regaining the energy you need to reach your goal may simply be a matter of organization and planning. Break your goal down into a series of small goals that will help you reach the larger goal.
Get rid of all that negativity that is blocking your way to success. When you replace the negative words that little voice in your head is saying like "I cant...I don’t..." with positive words like "I can...I do...", success will become something you can see again.
Warmly
Richard
New You Life Coaching
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