If you feel stuck in any area of your
life it could very well be due to a lack of forgiveness. Perhaps you are having
trouble forgiving someone else or yourself. It doesn't matter. Holding on to
past memories or "stories" is guaranteed to tie up your energy and
block your ability to attract what you want.
I struggled with forgiveness for many years because I believed that if I
forgave someone they would not receive the "just punishment" they
deserved for what they had done to me. But as I looked at that belief I
realized it was just that, a belief. In fact, it was just an assumption and an illusion.
What I learned is that the universe will always seek balance and it will deal
with that person or situation in the appropriate way, even if it that means letting
them off the hook. The outcome in their
life has nothing to do with the outcome in my life unless I choose to keep
myself tied to it.
If you think about it, when you choose to forgive someone, it is nothing more
than an ego trip. When you say "I forgive you", what you are really
saying is you have some sort of hold over them. By saying "I forgive
you", you decree that you are pronouncing them "free" of your
resentment. That isn't forgiveness. That's an ego trip.
There is really nothing to forgive. What
we call forgiveness is simply letting go. It is not placing judgment on other
people or yourself. When you are truly conscious you realize that nothing "bad"
or "wrong" happened. You may judge it as "bad" or
"wrong", but from the view of ALL THAT IS what occurred is simply
what occurred. It's over. It's done. It's history.
Because we believe something "bad" happened, we still think of ourselves
as being victimized no matter how much we try to forgive. So we are caught up
between two conflicting energies. One is to condemn and blame and the other is
to forgive. This is why we struggle with forgiveness.
However, when we are truly conscious we realize nothing "bad", "negative"
or "evil" happened at all. In fact, what happened didn't happen TO
you but FOR you. It happened to help you to awaken and grow. It was part of
your life lesson to bring you to where you are right now and to allow you to
let go of your "story" of victimization.
So if you are stuck in any area of your life, take a look at your unwillingness
to forgive yourself or others and just let it go! Realize there is nothing to
forgive. You just have to release it and move on.
Truly Caring for Your Success!
Dr. Robert Anthony
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