Today I would like to share one of my
favorite thoughts on self-improvement.
This short thought comes from
Nathaniel Branden's book The Six Pillars of Self-Esteem and it simply goes like this:
"No one is coming".
Short. But it has been a powerful and
sobering reminder for me.
Because yes, you can look for the
next big thing that will fix you.
Read more blog articles. Read more
personal development books. Look for people to help you.
And yes, some articles, books,
products or people will give you support and insights that resonate deeply with you and that you can put into
practice.
But in the end, if you are an adult
then no one is coming. No one is coming to save you. You have to take responsibility for your own life and what happens in it. Other things and people can certainly aid you quite a bit. But you are
responsible.
You can go around blaming society or
some people for your problems in your social life. Or finances. Or health. You can always find scapegoats to judge to
feel better about yourself. You can look for people that will "fix you".
You can do this for the rest of your life if you like. It won't change much. Whatever has to be
done, it's you who have to take responsibility and do it.
Yeah, things might always not go your
way. You'll fall and stumble and you will probably have bad luck from time to
time.
But you still have to focus on
yourself and on doing what you can do with what you have in whatever situation that may arise in your world.
Have a wonderful day.
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